Some books that have good timing. “Extra Virgin” is a memoir of two English women who decide to buy a derelict house (olive grove included) in the mountains of Liguria, Italy. It was a decision that raised not a few eyebrows and put into perspective one I’ve made recently.
In the middle of an economic recession I’ve decided to quit my senior job in one of the city’s larger consultancies to accept an opportunity in a tinny NGO dealing with renewable energy in developing countries. It involved some serious self-questioning (and some discussions with Andre about the impact on our household budget) but it’s decided and I feel damn good about it! From where I’m standing, even if I am romanticizing the NGO world, it’s still a risk I need to take. I’ve been toying with the idea for years and it’s now or never. I’m done with Big Business and can already feel my karma improving. Wish me luck!
Now back to the book. I’m not a big fan of these memoirs about moving to a Mediterranean Eden and probably wouldn’t have read “Extra Virgin” if it wasn’t for my Olive theme in the One, Two, Theme Challenge. I was bored out of my wits with “Under the Tuscan Sun” and found Richard Hewitt’s “A Cottage in Portugal” vaguely offensive. I felt he didn’t try to understand the reasons behind the surreal things that happen to him. Maybe it was just a patriotic tantrum, but either way, it didn’t work for me. In “Extra Virgin”, and just like Richard Hewitt, Lucy and Annie also met a “singular logic”, but they face it with a different philosophy: understand, accept and integrate (just like I did when first faced with the Belgian waste collection system…).
For instance, at a certain point they noticed their neighbor Nico wasn’t exactly the friendliest guy in the world and assumed it was a dislike for the foreigners (and single women at that!) who were invading honest-to-God Ligurian land. But no, many moons later they’ve come to realize that his antipathy was because they didn’t “clean” their land, making it a fire-hazard to the olive trees and houses around them. Nico assumed they knew this (how could they not? It’s common sense!), and were just being negligent.
These and other misunderstandings are described in a funny, easy-going way, with not a small dose of humility and self-mirth. You can clearly feel their love for Italy, Liguria, their small village and own piece of land.
Her descriptions of meals were especially true to the love affair between Italians and their gastronomy:
We go on eating all afternoon, the digestive system expanding, as usual, to fill the entire universe and more.
It was interesting to notice the similarities with Portuguese culture, not only in our own relationship with food, but also in other idiosyncrasies (dogmas really) that foreigners don’t really understand. For example, you cannot swim after a meal, not for the next 3 hours after you finish eating (at least!). Why is that? I never really understood myself, but someone always knows someone who knew someone who broke the rule and suffered a horrible death.
Annie and her sister go through a slow learning process, but in “Extra Virgin” she never patronizes us with an unrealistic romanticization of Italy or the proverbial “quaint” peasants. There’s HIV and dark WWII stories, but there’s also plenty of laughing-out-loud episodes. In between I gained a new respect for olives:
And thanks to all those insistently ripening eat-me-now-or-I’ll-rot vegetable we have at last understood what it is about the olive that has made it such a symbol of peace and plenty for the last couple of thousand years. The olive is magic: if you have olive oil, which we do – even though ours is for the moment bought at Ugo’s and may very well be full of only the Lord knows what – you can transform visually calorie-free greenery into nutritious-packed substance.
The only reason why I don’t give it a 5/5 is because I missed the personal factor. Annie is funny and a keen observer, but we know almost nothing about her, her background, her family or her life in England. It’s only on rare occasions that she lets us glimpse her thoughts, including the doubts she must have occasionally felt about her endeavor. In many way the book feels too… anthropological.
Book read for One, Two, Theme Challenge
Theme 3: Olives/Olive oil
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February 8, 2011 at 12:23 pm
Scribacchina
I am always wary of books about people moving to Italian countryside… so I’m glad this turned out to be different from most!
Good luck with your new job and the associated risks 🙂 (I can relate, oh yes!)
February 8, 2011 at 10:00 pm
nymeth
Ha – I was raised with the same myth about swimming after you eat. It was one I was happy to disregard once I hit my teens. I still remember how rebellious that made me feel 😛
Best of luck with the new job!
February 8, 2011 at 10:18 pm
Mady
Congrats on your decision – brave, brave girl! It feels good to have beliefs and stick to them. I’m always proud of you! 🙂 Another friend of mine also quit her job recently in telecommunications to move to in Nicaragua to go to work at an ONG in order to use her marketing knowledge/experience there! All I do is very sporadic volunteer work.
I still follow the “no bath after meals” rule 😛 You never know… And here in the UK I’ve got people being shocked because I left home in winter with my hair wet – according to them I could get meningitis!! I had to use Internet to prove to them it was just another myth (and one I’d never herad about!).
February 14, 2011 at 2:36 pm
Alex
@Scribacchina: You can? Maybe I should drop you a line to get some tips 🙂 I think even Italians will like this one.
@nymeth: I remember looking up the myth on the internet some years ago, but found nothing conclusive. I also shook it of in my teens. But I admit: I shower whenever i want, but am still weary of going into the sea…
@Mady: I’m glad you don’t think I’m crazy (I’ve been getting weird looks from some people). I don’t think I’ll regret it, but will have to deal with the end of what Andre calls my Bourgeois life 😛
February 22, 2011 at 1:21 pm
Joanna
As I’ve said to you before, I think you’re super brave and I’m sure you made the right choice. Yay, how exciting!
As for the book, it sounds better than most of this kind, I’ll admit.
February 26, 2011 at 3:19 am
Lisa
Found you through the Villette readalong and saw that you’ve read this. My mom passed it along to me. She really enjoyed it as well and after reading your review, I’m eager to dig it out of the pile’o’books!
February 26, 2011 at 2:20 pm
Alex
Joanna: Thanks for all your support during the soul-searching stage, it meant a lot!
@Lisa: I’ll add your blog to my Google Reader and look forward to your review. None of the bloggers I follow ever commented on this book!
December 21, 2011 at 9:03 am
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December 21, 2011 at 9:28 am
ChrisCross53
I read Annie Hawes’ A Handful of Honey, about her travels in North Africa, which I enjoyed very much, which does contain more about Annie’s background, and has some of the most mouthwatering descriptions of food, as well as very perceptive comments on the places she visits.
May 11, 2012 at 2:58 pm
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August 25, 2012 at 2:26 pm
Marianne Chadwick
I have read and re-read Annie’s books and replaced them many a time when I’ve insisted friends take my copies away to read. The problem is no one else comes close to her, I’ve bought and discarded with bitter disappointment, the other books mentioned in this write up (and others) after a chapter or two. That said, the journey south was a one-off read, not a favourite.